Wednesday, July 29

Email to GrannyGreat.

Would tomorrow morning be a good time to bring Ady and CeCe and Jack over for a visit? We are going swimming after lunch, since it's to be a warm day. On Monday we went hiking in Waterton, and we saw a grizzly bear from the road, and 3 mountain sheep on the trail right in front of us. And several chipmunks, who helped us eat our lunch. Jack also saw an elephant in a boat on Waterton lake and he heard a gorilla in the woods as we hiked. The rest of us did not see the elephant or hear the gorilla. Jack said it's because he has very sensitive ears.Yesterday we went and played at Jack's house in the morning, and then we went to a movie in the afternoon...Night At The Museum. We ate Sour Patch Kids candies and drank pop and laughed and giggled lots. We also went to the Dollar Store and bought a bunch of wonderful stuff to play with. Today we went visiting teaching to my friend's house who has a little girl named Hannah. So after that, Hannah came over to visit and we played and jumped on the trampoline till Jack came out to play......then we all played with Kyle's lego, and went for a wagon ride downtown to the post office. We also made cookies and pizza. Every night they watch movies on the big screen downstairs with Grampa till they fall asleep, and then they wake up at 8:30 or so, and we do it all over again. Jack has come for sleepovers twice, and this weekend they are all going camping with Rachel and Derek to Writing-On-Stone, and Stuart and I will join them Saturday.

SO, we are having a WONDERFUL time!!!!the one of the trail...look carefully and you will see the mountain sheep! The grizzly bear was VERY exciting. Luckily we were in the truck when we saw it or Ady would have had a panic attack (she has been afraid of seeing a grizzly bear all summer).
Red Rock Canyon with chocolate milk running through it (a huge rainstorm in Waterton the day before).
Filling the gas tank of grampa's golf cart (Madison is a great driver)..FinnBinn CeCe jumping off the deck onto the trampoline
oh, and the ice cream ones...it was melting all over them, and they were all a little dismayed. LOL.

Monday, July 27

Grandpa and the Cookie Jar

Grandpa opening a present on Christmas morning.

Sunday, July 26

Uncle Randy on the Ski Biscuit in Whitefish

Slight clarification.


There's been a bit of discrepancy between Uncle Jack's obituary and the email Mother sent out last Sunday morning, saying he had passed away on Saturday evening...so, it's been investigated, and here is Mother's email explaining the whole thing.

"Well, I just talked to my sister at the farm, she's staying on with Jean until Aug 5, to help her over the grieving hump. Jack actually passed away on Saturday the 18th, but they were still trying to get him back till after midnite, unsuccessfully of course. The hospital DID actually phone at 10:30 p.m. AND THE DOCTOR'S CERTIFICATE WAS DATED JULY 19TH, THAT'S WHY THEY PUT THAT DATE ON THE PROGRAM AND OBITUARY. So that explains all the confusion, the official date therefore is July 19th.
Lori and Sandra are still there with Jean and Chris, the girls are leaving today. Jean has our Naylor family flowers by her fireplace, Chris says they're absolutely gorgeous and haven't faded a bit. She gave away some to close rellies, kept a few, and took the rest to the Lodge and the hospital. There were so many of them.
The kids (Bruce, Chris Andrews, Lori, Arla) are talking FAMILY REUNION, without benefit of funerals, for NEXT YEAR, 2010. And they're suggesting SALT LAKE CITY, Utah!! I am floored. This was not an LDS suggestion, by the way. And Chris wants to be the cook! (my niece, your intrepid cousin, she's an amazing girl)."

Friday, July 24

Old Video Footage

TRIBUTE TO MY BROTHER JACK

On Sunday, 19 July 2009, the whole family was shocked to learn that Jack had passed on to his great reward. Saturday had been a good day, the 3rd after he had successfully undergone tricky surgery for cancer of the jaw. With a dicky heart after bypass surgery some years back, Jack had experienced some close calls, but always managed to come through with flying colors. Not so this time....his operation was on Wednesday, and it was seemingly successful, although took longer than anticipated by the surgeon, and longer in recovery. Thursday and Friday were not the best, but as expected. Saturday he had a great day, he was alive and feeling on the mend, had wonderful visits with family part of the day. Bruce told me they left about 8 p.m. because Dad was kind of tired by then, so they went home to let him have a good night's sleep. At 10:30 pm, the tragic call from the hospital came, that Jack had passed away. Needless to say, the news was a terrible shock to all.

Jack was so loved! Such a favorite with his many nieces and nephews, his siblings, his two sons and one daughter, his six grandchildren who thought the sun rose and set on their grandpa, and of course, his beloved wife Jean, who had gone through so much trauma with Jack's health over the last number of years, toiled willingly and cheerfully,
was always his greatest support, helpmate and love of his life. To say nothing of the hundreds of friends in and around Vermilion, who responded to that friendship by turning out in huge numbers to his funeral, to say their goodbyes and to offer their support to Jean. The funeral was held at the First United Church in Vermilion on Wednesday the 22nd of July, and it was HUGE, standing room only, and it is by no means a small church. It was conducted by Rev. Mary Royal, and very nicely done, indeed, according to the rites of the United Church. Son Bruce and cousin Rob Holte delivered the eulogy between them, lovely tributes to a life well lived. A small choir led the congregational hymns, and special on the program was his niece Arla Wilding, who sang three beautiful renditions in his honour. Jack had no aspirations to be anything in life but a good farmer, and that he became, winning many awards in the agricultural field, including Outstanding Farmer of the Year. His achievements over the years were remarkable indeed; he contributed a great deal to agriculture in the province of Alberta.

My brother Jack was a UNIQUE character! Oftentimes blunt and very honest, he was family-renowned for his ascerbic humour, kindness, and sense of fun. We teased him by calling him a real diamond-in-the-rough. Loved playing cribbage, probably his favorite of the many card games he enjoyed....there was many a heated competition when family and/or friends showed up for a visit. The last few years he so much enjoyed going to a fishing camp out at the coast, where family joined him and Jean and they truly had a ball! And caught some mighty big ones, too! These events were probably the highlights of Jack's whole life.

The pictures on this post were snapped by my daughter Debbie....wish she had taken one of the coffin before it started its downward journey,the casket was so well chosen, had a motif carved into the golden oak, of clusters of wheat heads, all around the perimeter of the box. Very apropos, indeed. The front of the church was literally a mass of flowers, bouquet after bouquet. Debbie took one picture of the "Naylor families" contribution, especially for those of my children and grandchildren that weren't able to attend. I know all of you that knew Uncle Jack couldn't help but love him, and will enjoy looking at the picture of our floral tribute.

The service out at the gravesite (about a mile out of Vermilion) was so impressive: a piper in full regalia played The Last Post as the casket was carried from the hearse to its final destination. The minister gave a short dedication of the grave. And beautiful red roses were clipped off the casket arrangement and handed out to the close family, to be cherished forever in memory of a great and much-loved person.

Last item on the agenda for this great memorial day was a sumptuous lunch served at the Seniors' Centre, there must have been upwards of 200 people there, family, extended family and scads of friends. I would've loved to linger longer, so to speak! but I had driven up with my daughters Linda and Debbie from Raymond Wednesday morning, and Stuart (did all the 11 hours of driving!) simply had to get back to his business, could only spare one day away. I am so grateful that my intrepid sister Chris is able to stay there with Jean for a couple of weeks, she will help her over that period of time when grief really takes over, when all the company leaves and you are alone with your memories.

GOODBYE, MY DEAR BROTHER JACK, UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN.....






Saturday, July 18

Flower power.

I walked through the community garden across the street on my way to the convenience store, and the plots have grown so much, i came back with my camera. The city loans this land to a group of local gardeners, who each get a boxed-in plot about 6' by 15'. They call it, their "Urban Eden". So, here we have various flowers, some yummy looking lettuces, a HUGE tomato bush, and the black cat, cleverly called, "Blackie", friend of the gardeners, who hangs about keeping the rabbits away from the numerous veggies. Interesting that no one seems to steal any of the many vegetables grown there. We Edmontonians are a civilized lot, i suppose.







Friday, July 17

Well, that took awhile...

(An email from Barb Macandlish, my second cousin i would think, and granddaughter of Mary Morrison, who made the tapestry, 'God is Love').

Good Morning Marion,
Well, it arrived safe and sound! We love it and will take extra good care of it. Please pass this photo on to Jeff. I will send him a letter of thanks in the mail as soon as I can. We are off to the beach with Mom today. She loves the ocean.

You are both so kind to do this for me. It means a lot to have something that actually was made by my grandmother.

It will go in our bedroom. Love to you all, Barb and Millie and Don too! xoxo

Thursday, July 16

Old pictures, old memories.

As you know, I have thousands of pictures in albums, and these I've picked out today are from an old album of black and whites, and they go back a very long way! In fact, to 1894! The first picture is my grandmother, Marion McLaren, as she looked when she first attracted the attention of my grandpa Baillie Wilson. Who is picture No. 3. 2 and 4 are tiny pics of the small town in Fifeshire, Scotland where they settled into married life. Baillie was a grocer in those days, running a grocery shop in Leven, Fife. Their first two children were Tom (b. 1896) and Christina (b. 1898), you can see them in picture No. 5, I suppose that would be taken sometime in 1898, as Christina is certainly just an infant. That's my Uncle Tom Wilson, and MY MOTHER Chrissie Wilson, the great lady responsible for my TURN ON EARTH.

The Wilsons were middle class people and when the "colonies" started to open up for immigration. had enough means to book passage on a ship out of Glasgow for far-off Canada. It was 1906 and the children were 8, 6, 4 and 2, the railway had snaked its way right across the country, and the Wilsons were bound for Vermilion, Alberta, where Grampa's brother George had already filed on a homestead some 18 miles south of town in a district named Wildmere. They had stopped in Toronto for a visit with Grampa's sister, who had emigrated a bit earlier on, with her husband and family. My mother's story "Homestead Days 1906" is well known in our family, and that's the setting when it begins.....the Wilsons getting off the train on the siding at Vermilion, it's dusk, and far off in the distance are the flames of a huge prairie fire. What an introduction to their new home to be! With them Baillie and Minnie had brought along his aging parents, neither one of whom lasted very long in the harsh living conditions they found themselves in. Truth be told, the Wilsons were ill prepared to survive the rigours of pioneer times in Alberta. Neither of my grandparents were much suited to the life of farmers, even though Baillie's family were originally small holdings farmers In Preston Pans, Scotland. Minnie spent many a night quietly mourning for her family back in the "olde land", hopelessly homesick. But they were valiant people, and determined to make the best of their choice in coming to Canada, they worked hard and tried very hard to become farmers, but somehow it never worked out. Baillie became the Secretary-Treasurer for the local municipality, not a very highly paid job, but enough for them to live on. Their children were their saving features; Tom went to work for the local lumberyard in Vermilion, and continued all his days in the lumber business in Edmonton. My mother was the cowgirl-ranger who spent her days in the saddle, taking care of the cattle herd. Jennie, the next in the family, went to Normal School and became a school teacher in a country school near Cadogan, Alberta, where she met and married a tall, raw-boned Norwegian named Albert Holte. John, the youngest, though of a somewhat frail constitution, did the actual farming(along with Chrissie).

But that's my mother's story, and I think you all have copies of it, my children.

Also in the album are dozens of pictures of Dad's early childhood, he was born in May 1925 in Edmonton, first child of Cyril and Eleanor Naylor, and the longest baby born in the Royal Alex hospital up to that time (25 inches). I couldn't resist posting the picture of him with his dog Mickey, how often have I seen that same scowl on that face!!! Yes, he really was his momma's boy, that one....more so because at the age of 5 he contracted infantile paralysis (polio) in the dreaded epidemic in 1930. He spent many months in hospital, and still more on crutches. He used to tell a story of how the other kids on his block used to steal his crutches, leave him sitting on the curb, and practise to their heart's content. Polio left him with weak legs, which kept him out of the Forces when the war came along, much to his disgust, and his mother's delight. This weakness led to lots of therapy, Doug took up ice skating, and he became an accomplished speed skater all through his teens. His other main hobby was horseback riding, and he eventually acquired his own horse which he kept at a stables (riding academy) on the outskirts of Edmonton. One of his most cherished memories was of riding his horse in the VE-DAY parade down Jasper Avenue....by the way, grandkids, that stands for VICTORY IN EUROPE, marking the end of WW 2. A HUGE celebration in 1945.

The last pic is one of Doug which is my favorite, in his sailor suit. Sailor suits were all the rage for little boys in the late twenties and early thirties, and his looked like an especially nice one. His mom, Eleanor, only had the two children, Doug and his sister Shirley, 5 years younger than him, but she kept them looking like they had just stepped out of a bandbox, immaculately dressed. Doug grew up with an innate sense of fashion, inherited from his dad, as well. The Naylors were very proper English, and it was de rigeur to always present the best appearance possible. Things changed a bit in his later years, mind you ! He looked so sharp when he was dressed up in suit and tie, but he certainly was never comfortable in them, and could hardly wait to get home and "out of this monkey-suit".

So just a few little memories for you, my family, and some pictures you haven't seen in many years.




Sunday, July 12

You might be interested..pics 2008

Just a bit of diversion here. These pictures are newly developed by Walmart, who kept me waiting a full hour extra for their vaunted "1 Hour Service". Sorry, we're just so busy today, blahblahblah. I did not feature having to make another trip into Lethbridge just to get the developed pictures, so I stuck it out. Thank goodness the shoe department has a couple of benches and just happens to be right next door to Photography. There I sat for a full hour. So annoying, I may join Camille in boycotting Walmart. Twits.

Believe it or not! these pictures have been sitting in my old 35mm camera for a year! Except for the one of Romay, Stuart's sister, partying it up in this year's Raymond parade! Every year when July 1st comes along, Romay and a bunch of her friends, put on the glitz and join the fun at the parade, they're so popular! Somebody, show this pic to Romay, she maybe doesn't see BLOG.....The others are at Rachel's (oops! maybe Linda's too, not sure!) in the summer of 2008, and feature Judy holding Finn, the absolutely cutest baby in at least Lethbridge, if not the WORLD...proud dad Derek holding the said cutest....prouder Grandma Linda, ditto.....and Mom Rachel holding Cuteness No. 1, Jack, while PG looks on.

Disclaimer here, you must realize this effusiveness is coming from Great Grandma's perspective, which does not preclude all the cuteness of her other seven great grands! Danny, Ady, CeCe, Zoe, Jayden, Dreyton and Drew. Actually, they're all my FAVORITES. And I'm justifiably proud they're all my family. (brag,brag...)


Saturday, July 11

Post number...?

Shorthanding here, i like base ten posts, eager to get to post 90, so i'm laming it up with some dumb some'in' you know what, pics of my plants. Enjoying a day in the clean Alberta sun. Then some midday reflections from Saskatchewan Drive, and a nice aerial shot of the skyline i nicked somewhere. My building is the little six story at the left edge of the frame, furthest front in the downtown cluster. And the few streets and avenues of houses frame right foreground? Our first neighbourhood.